Beyond – beyond Dissipation
of the Life Force Energies
Previously we exposed this hidden feeling of having parts of ourselves chipped away by our sexual partners. This is precisely what many women and men also fear; that if and when they give themselves to a lover, a part of them is taken away – it goes missing. Thus of course many feel depleted, used up.
Many prostitutes say they got out of the business of selling their bodies, because there came a point where there was nothing left of them; just a shell. Many more women within ordinary relationships, voice the same concern.
Are they speaking nonsense, or the truth of what actually happens when one engages continually in just a bursting of the biological sex draw, bubble?
Sex – the cock in the box and to be more accurate, orgasmic release within the birth canal, is what keeps us separate. Never ever forget that. Do not be blinded by biology, or by those who use it as a biological weapon, against us, namely the pharmaceutical companies, governments and religious institutions. I say this because is it not a standard truth that if a woman finds out that her boyfriend or husband has had his cock in another’s box, this same female suddenly doesn’t want this man within a hundred years of her anymore. But why is that? Is it the risk of disease, the risk of contamination by another woman’s vaginal fluids; bacteria that causes her to pack his suitcase and throw it down the front steps onto the lawn?
Likewise if a man finds out that his wife or usual sex partner has, or is still ‘cheating’ on him, what does he do, other than fly into a rage. But really what is this anger about? Does he fear also that if he enters this woman again that he will be contaminated by another man’s semen? Perhaps he is genuinely worried that his dick might become diseased and fall off.
Certainly he feels betrayed; feels his lovemaking is somehow defective, all because the woman he was once determined to call his own; turns out not to be committed to sexually interacting with him exclusively. Are these the real causes of divorce and the reason we end our relationships once infidelity enters the fray? Or is it something else the man and the woman who have been betrayed fear - something unconscious and therefore never spoken or deciphered?
Let us now look for possible solutions to this oh so common occurrence of couples coming together, only to somewhere down the road, break apart. Whether it is the actual ending of the relationship, or just the cause of one falling into a stalemate, where both remain together, but nonetheless cohabitate miserably dissatisfied and resentful, ever after; this force of ‘divorce’ needs to be understood if we are to go beyond revolving door type relationships, broken families, abandoned children and mental breakdown.
For many the root cause of their all-pervading will and want to come together only to then break apart, unconsciously runs parallel to the rise and dissipation of their sexual energies. Most spend their whole lives, generating life force only to misunderstand this pressure and irritation in the genitals as something that necessitates getting rid of. Thus they spend their lives and relationships seeking to gain and lose; regain and then lose again and again. Ultimately this seeking ‘after’ only to blow becomes an obsession – a pattern; that is until the body and the mind become totally and utterly ‘rutted’ and thus shut down the game.
When you come to understand life force energy as sexual energy, naturally you become aware that you are equivalent a mad builder who goes on laying the foundations, but never gets around to building the actual house for which the foundation is meant.
Realize that feeling and taking notice of the life force charge with the body when you feel that fullness and pressure within the genitals is just the signal that all is ready for you to build something more on top of the foundation that is already within. However if orgasm becomes the focal point of life force energy usage, the whole of one’s life becomes a waste; something that is ejaculated from the body and left on the sheets.
Commonly one of the first questions my clients or ‘Tipping’ workshops participants ask me is; ‘am I against intercourse.’ Certainly not if and when it is reserved for consciously making babies that are able to be well supported, and considered. Then I am usually asked what about oral sex, self-pleasuring? Am I against these things? Am I against genital orgasm however it is generated, that explodes and dissipates the essential life forces energies? It has its place. Am I against ecstasy? I live for it. But am I for intercourse and genital stimulation that results in the dissipation of the life force energies when it becomes the sole outlet for anyone, of any age; male or female to handle their essential energies? Certainly I am against it, only because I know how destructive it is to mind, body and relationships.
Certainly genital orgasm, the forcing down and out of the life force, can be the means to an end; but if we consciously ‘will’ to evolve and enhance both our health and stamina; as well as increase our social magnetism and stabilize our relationships then genital orgasmic release, cannot be allowed to become an end in, or of itself. And that is what has happened to so very many who are unconscious of the ‘right use’ and ‘gathering’ of their life force energies. All their lives they have only ever recognized, genital irritation and pelvic pressure as needing to be ‘gotten rid of’ – ‘the dog needing to be let of the chain.’ Thus blindly we seek orgasmic release, as the only legitimate use or ‘rounding up’ of our ‘life force,’ only in an effort to ‘blow’ it.
For many the moment they cannot muster or gather their sexual energies and feel ‘turned on’, they panic. They think they are dead. They think because they have no evidence of their life force that they must have died. They think their life is over. Similarly, many clients who come to me with impotency issues, fess up not too long after then walk through the door that they believe ‘life is over’ for them. And I am sure it feels that way to them.
‘But trust me,’ I say, ‘wait a little; open and learn a little about the self and how to generate and consciously gather the life force within and soon you will have a whole other life ahead of you.’
Understandably for many males when they arrive at a point of not being able to ‘get it up’ on command of ‘will’ as they are use to; they feel it as a great lose – a part of them has died. And certainly if drawing the life force always down and out of the body becomes the fixed immovable habit of a lifetime then inevitable one must come to an end of this streaming away from the body. Eventually the body is drained. The central purpose is achieved. Thus no longer does the body obey the instruction to centralize the excess life force down below, but rather it conserves and reserves what little it has for other essential life sustaining purposes... read more